Comments on: 4 Reasons Why She Doesn't Call You Back

By: StupidBullshit

StupidBullshit — Thu, 03 Nov 2011 01:45:46 +0000

** Where they hell do you "authors" pull this shit out of ? **

"Your confidence is up, your breath is minty fresh, and you've still got a little pump going from that workout you did a few hours ago. You spot your target over by the bar: a tall, slim, exotic beauty laughing it up with her equally hot friends. They are arranged with their backs to the bar and are facing out into the action (good sign, they're open for approach)."

Does this ever play out in real life? What planet are you on. It's just as bad as this train wreck of an assumption:

"You may have done everything right: smooth and confident in the opener, charmed her and had her laughing, and waited 2-3 days to call. "

The hell?

You're writing is similar to the vapid nightmare that is the Maxim/Mens Health/Cosmo world. It's assumes every asshole out there is George Fucking Clooney. It's hysterical to read this obnoxious articles all over the internet and all over the noted magazines.

By: Guest passing through

Guest passing through — Wed, 21 Sep 2011 16:45:59 +0000

I been friends with this woman for 10 years and recently we have decided to become more friendly with each other but getting her to be mine isn't working out and has caused us both to argue time and time again, although we have cut contact several times she still contacted me or vice versa to chat and hang out, I have no idea why im so important to her or she to me, but I notice if you miss read the signs and try to play it too cool thats when she decides your not for her and now we are just friends that text each other on occasion rather than everyday, we rarely hang out too, I never have problems approaching women an hardly get rejected but she rejected me millions of times an I still came back for more didn't give up, but when she finally wanted what I was trying to give her I didn't react and now its too late..

By: Supermonkey From Van

Supermonkey From Van — Wed, 20 Jul 2011 01:05:41 +0000

Oook this is my story, Met this chick iv known for a longgg after a long time and shes super hot and asked for her number…..so i told her i wanted to come see her the next day… soo i pick her up and take her back to my place no one was home…she stayed over all day, and even slept over… first we didnt do anything, hung out had a couple beers i smoked weed she doesnt get high….. everything was good….i dunno how it happend we ended up having sex… iv always wanted her…. i was kinda happy….for a day or so we talked all day slept on the phone together happy days right?… then 3 days after she calls me after a heavy bought of drinking with her friends and says to me "i dont picture my self with u"…"i dont like doing the sleeping on the fone shit"…which i like to do :$…….i got chocked, hung up…next day she calls back says sorry and what not it was all cool….but it wasnt the same lolll … im not really much a friend ….im like in love after 1 nite LOL!! all she does is party and bullshit… basically what im trying to say is U cant live with them… u cant live without them :(

By: singstar

singstar — Fri, 13 May 2011 21:36:23 +0000

Hi Uzo,

I agree with you. Sometimes if not most of the time they treat like an ATM machine untill you has sexual intercorse with them and suddenly they realize that they love you
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By: guest legend

guest legend — Fri, 13 May 2011 19:45:13 +0000

Word, uzo has it figured out pretty much. Usually what I do to get a women to call me back to use good bait, nothing special just call and say you want to date her out on a date or out to dinner, she obviously knows you will be paying for it. shelling out 20 bucks is nothing major and most people can sleep soundly over 2o bucks. take her out, be funny, connect and pretty soon she'll call you more times than you will call her
as a rule of thumb don't be acting like you ain't got nothing to do in a day or a week, say some stuff like I'll hit you up after i get off work, I'll hit you up after I sell some product,
as long as you about something and you got cash flow, women will call u up n' down lol
this ain't rocket science
shes got to know that you don't need her, you can get the next chick if you wanted to and it's nothing to you to drop her like a dime
that type of stuff keeps a chick around cause they don't like to lose

By: uzo

uzo — Tue, 03 May 2011 12:57:41 +0000

Firstly I would like to commend all the guys who have made an effort in regards to befriending the opposite sex. They are a peculiar bunch and no one even duan jon d marco has all the answers. Let me just jump into it. Women expect you to call them. ALWAYS. If u don't get her on the phone at anytime, she expects you to call her again. They have been taught to hide their emotions. If you are not having sex with a woman as far as she's concerned she dosent feel she owes you anything and will do whatever and treat you however she likes. When you have slept with her only then does she think of you as a partner . This has been my experience. People say that you shouldn't show a girl how much you like her. Some of us actually want get with someone we like, so there's no way you won't show it eventually , so I don't believe its a bad idea to tell a girl you like her. Its only a woman with an agenda or a woman who dosent like you that wouldn't appreciate a guy telling her they care about her or love her. My point is this, if you haven't slept with a woman, don't expect anything from her, she's not yours and be ready to do what you feel is right to win her whether she calls you or not.

By: Guest

Guest — Tue, 08 Mar 2011 17:31:00 +0000

Social conditioning. Girls are taught not to make any moves at all and guys are taught to pursue to the point of stalking her and going to jail. There's still a lot of restrictive gender roles in dating and courting that people need to live by in order to be desirable to the opposite sex.

By: Plaster of Paris

Plaster of Paris — Fri, 18 Feb 2011 02:18:03 +0000

Here is my story and i tend to agree with mo on this. What happened to me a month ago was a very attractive blonde tall type waitress comes to my table and says to my ear "your good looking", and talks to me. Not that i have the gift of discernment, but i guess her age, nationality, and even astrological sign. She kept coming back to my table and talked. She realized that i just recently ended a 2 year relationship and gave me a hug. She also indicated she went through the same thing. I also held her leg and hands as we talked.

After the third trip to my table, i got tired of her flirtiness and asked her out to a museum. She said yes and asked for my info, but i didn't have a pen, so she gave me her number in a napkin with a little heart and said "call me", sure enough i called three days later, as i was busy with my second job and her voicemail comes on. I talked slowly and politely but never got the call back or text.

Since i had recently broke up, i was not interested in nothing more than casual dating, but it was an obvious leading on situation. I prefer when they simply don't play such games and ignore or rebuke advances. I don't think waiting 2 and a half days is either too fast or too late, it is simply as mo said an act of immaturity and dishonesty. But since i didn't really expect much out of it, nothing is really lost. But it does give me trepidation in asking out a stranger. I prefer to stick to someone who i see often and knows me as someone in church or neighbor.

By: JasonBlack

JasonBlack — Sun, 13 Feb 2011 06:50:06 +0000

Hey, I'm kinda in the same boat, except I signed up for an online dating service and this girl e-mailed me to tell me that she was interested. So we emailed back and forth a couple of times. I didn't contact her for a couple of days. Then last Saturday night she emailed her number and told me to call her. So I did. We talked for about an hour and a half. Then before I got off the phone, she told me to call her when I got off work tomorrow night. Anyway, I get home and I call her, but I get no answer. So i call one more time just to leave a message. Then a few minutes later, she texts me saying she's out with some people, but will call me soon. So, I'm tired and I end up falling asleep early that night. Then for the next four days I heard nothing. Not a missed call or a txt had I received. Till I txted her Thursday, saying "Hey I haven't heard from you. Hope your week is going well. She responds saying "I rang you 2 times and I figured you would call me back." I then ask her if I can call her that night, she says sure that'd be great. Low and behold, I call her and no answer. This time around I leave a voicemail, first time around. Then I try it one last time. Once again I get text, "call u soon, with friends". So I wait around, nothing happens. So I get up yesterday and just email her, to give her the impression that I wasnt available. So, I said, "hey I didnt hear from you last night. I was hoping we could talk because I'd like to get to know you better and I'm Saturday night and I'd like to take you to dinner, if you're interested. If not its okay. Since I sent that its been nothing but silence I don't if this girl is playing games or what. Any advice would be much appreciated.

By: Dave

Dave — Tue, 08 Feb 2011 04:30:57 +0000

Tryin to be polite.. Blow that chick off for awhile bro, Ignore completely dude. I know its hard but trust me she will come running. Never give a woman too much off the start. They are like sharks and if there is blood in the water they will feast. Trust me I have been worked from quite a few beauties, but I learned and you know what. You;re the man so be the man. If you decide to call her one more time and she doesn't answer. Say. " You are really pissing me off. I thought you were a cool girl, but maybe I was wrong. Take care.. And seriously leave her alone after that, and watch, ff she cares at all about you she will come running back. If not there are plenty of chicks out there bro.. Never let em see you sweat. You are the man.