I bet if I told you "these 3 small words" began with "I" and ended with "you", you'd probably think you knew which phrase I was referring to. Suppose I further revealed that the middle word begins with "L" and ends with "E". I can hear your screaming, "I'd like to solve the puzzle, Pat!". But, unless you guessed, "I like you," then no bonus prizes for you.
I like you. Feels good doesn't it? Can you remember a time right now when anyone (male or female) said, "I like you"? There's something about those words that establish a connection between two people that is very real. What about, "I love you", you ask? "I love you" is a great and powerful phrase when used between two people who truly love each other. But, the problem with those three small words is that in sexual/dating relationships, they are often misused, overused, forced, and/or rushed.
When you're in a new relationship, thinking about when to drop the "ILY" bomb can be as nerve-racking as the first kiss or first time in the bedroom. Sometimes, one partner feels like it's been so long that they are obligated to utter these three fateful words, just so the other person won't feel offended or neglected. Now, the other person feels like they have to return this "love", or they might risk ending the relationship. Either way, many times those three "magical" words often lead to awkwardness or just plain relationship-ending tragedy. How could "I love you" do that?!
The key is knowing how to express the same meaning behind "I love you", but in a way that you can use near the beginning of a relationship, without drudging up any complications or awkward moments. Enter "I like you". It's very simple, very similar, and very much as powerful. Next time your out on a date, and you and your partner are laughing and having a great time, pause for a second, look them in the eyes, and say, "I like you".
You will create a feeling inside of them arguably more powerful than if you had said "those other three small words". There's no pressure or anxiety associated with this phrase, because you can say it to anyone. It will come off as truly genuine and charming. Try it next time you're out, and watch her eyes light up. Remember, it's best to catch her off guard. Wait until you two are laughing hysterically or just being silly, then pause, look her in the eyes, and say "I like you".
What happens later could lead to a different three-word phrase, "I l__t you". "I'd like to buy a 'U' and an 'S' please, Pat."
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Do you have any words or phrases that you have found to be powerful or successful with the opposite sex? Leave a comment below with your examples and/or stories.
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Well said, maybe "words can't hurt you" but they can certainly help!